Deconstructing feminist views

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                                             Deconstructing feminist views:

The Thought is:

------"Confidence; is the sexiest thing a woman can have.

It's much sexier than any body part.

Women need a reason to have sex. 

Men just need a place.

A man can sleep around, no questions asked;

but if a woman makes nineteen or twenty mistakes she's a tramp".

Deconstruction:

1. Confidence; is the sexiest thing a woman can have.- 

Are women wholly confident? 

Can they honestly affirm their confidence? 

Why is confidence sexy? 

What is regarded to be sexy? 

What is sexy? 

Why do women have to be sexy?

Aren't there other qualities that can make a woman sexy?

2. It's much sexier than any body part.-

This is a negation of wome'ns bodies. 

There is a relation between confidence and sexual appeal.

A mandatory sentence: in order to be sexy you have to be confident, and if you are not confident you are not sexy, and if you are not sexy, your body is not sexy. 

3. Women need a reason to have sex.- 

Reason is: The basis or motive for an action, decision or conviction. A declaration made to explain or justify action, desicion or conviction. An underlying fact or cause that provides logical sense for a premise or occurrence. 

 Women need a reason to have sex because they are judged by the patriarchal system and the feminist system. They think they have to control their urges to have sex, by finding a valid reason to have sex with someone, and then talking about it, discussing it whether if it's worth it or not to have sex with the person. Then after much consideration they do it, always feeling either guilty or expecting a more serious engagement with the person whom they just bedded.

  Then we have other women who do not need a reason to have sex, who are so liberated that they choose to do it whenever they want and can. Women who afterwards go on with their lives never regretting the pleasure they have enjoyed. Poor of the woman who needs a reason to have sex, and ponders of the why's and how's instead of letting go of  all doubts. 

4. Men just need a place.- This is a feminist point of view that denigrate men, yet this statement apply to the whole human race. People need a place to interact with other people. Men and women, (any age, weight, height, etc...) enjoy intimate relations, they need to feel something beyod their realm.

5. A man can sleep around, no questions asked, but if a woman makes nineteen or twenty mistakes, then she's  a tramp.

Male chauvinism and even feminism has promoted this thruth, for no one ever questions a man when he sleep;s around. To say this is to admit that sleeping around is a mistake by writing that if a woman sleeps around is not just sleeping around she is also making a mistake. So, sleeping around is a mistake for both men and women.  

At first glance the thought presents itself as a feminist view point.