Monday, July 25, 2011

CHAMPAGNE SUMMER BREEZE


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I took you in my hands
golden and shy
poured your gold 
into my void
a quarter and a half...

Tiny bits of my orange pulp
sweet decorators of time
champagne bitter sweet 
just like my summer lies.

ALARGALO, ALARGALO EN EL LIQUIDO,
alargalo en lo supersonico,
Alargalo en mi garganta,
alargalo en mi esmeralda...

 Vuelta y chupalo,
hay hielo en las cavernas,
gira y saborealo
el frio entre tus piernas,
sorbetos interior
succionan tu escencia
desaparecedor de vuelta en la escena...

 pause and taste the sins,
drinks that die in your lips,
drop by drop, you drop
Inundando mi interior,
Come to my deserted time
my dilapidated life
join me in your dreams
you can count on me.

I am your dreams
i am in your sleep
you can count on me....
oh yes lord...
you can count on me,
lord silence all above....

corre y buscalo,
creador entre tus piernas
merecedor de toda tu inocencia
corre y buscalo,
vuestro creador.


Sunday, July 24, 2011

Male impotence, a choice? An interview


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After reading my article on male impotence, one of my readers pointed out that men sometimes become impotent after realizing they do not want to fornicate with the woman they have next to them. This is a transcript of our conversation:
Mr. P. said: "Sometimes, we like the women until they take their clothes off, or do something that turns men off, but once you are there, you can not turn away, you have to perform, and the stress is horrible, 'cause we don't want women to think we are useless in bed, and we want to get things done as quickly as possible, and get out of there and never come back, that is why we never call them again..." 

Interviewer asked him: "if you do not like her then why get to that point, the point of no return..."

Mr. P.: "In the beginning i did liked her, until i saw her naked, that threw me off, she was like the blob, so i had no choice but to do it, but in my head i was disgusted, i have never been with women like that, though she was good doing stuff, i just could not get pass the fat, on the other hand, i have been with skinny good looking women, that can also throw me off, those skinny ones have poor hygiene, or they think that just 'cause their skinny they don't have to do anything at all, at all, i mean they lie in bed and i have to kinda worship them, for what? So that is a turn off too!" 

In conclusion: I have identified several topics here that can be discussed later, it seems that from Mr. P.'s point of view, there are many factors that contribute in men being impotent, especially if they are young.   

We will be back with more of this interview, stay tuned.


If you want to participate let us know, it is confidential.


Monday, July 18, 2011

Intro song of Hung, love it or hate it.


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Hung ended so sad....


I'll be your man...

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Male Impotence


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 What is Male Impotence?
 
Impotence is the male's inability to copulate or get an erection.
Can a man have an erection and be impotent?
Yes, absolutely.
    Men and women think that just because the penis is erect there is no impotence there. When men have an erection without ejaculation, that means they are not having an orgasm, ultimately resulting in men FAKING orgasms. Yes, men do fake their orgasms quite a lot. They often masquerade it as saying and demonstrating that they do not ejaculate prematurely, or having long lasting intercourse.

How long should normal, healthy intercourse should last?

   Normally a man can achieve orgasm within 2 to 4 minutes of active thrusting during sexual intercourse.

   A man with delayed ejaculation either does not have orgasms at all or cannot have an orgasm until after prolonged intercourse which might last for 30–45 minutes or more.
 
 
This is known as Male Orgasmic Disorder (formerly known as Inhibited Male Orgasm).
 
    Male Orgasmic Disorder is a persistent or recurrent delay in, or absence of, orgasm following a normal sexual excitement phase during sexual activity that the clinician, taking into account the person's age, judging to be adequate in focus, intensity, and duration. The disturbance causes marked distress or interpersonal difficulty. The Orgasmic Dysfunction is not better accounted for by another Axis I disorder (except another Sexual Dysfunction) and is not due exclusively to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g., a drug of abuse, a medication) or a general medical condition (A.P.A.,2011).  

Take in consideration the following:


If the sexual dysfunction has been present since the onset of sexual functioning (Organic or biological causes) then the male orgasmic disorder is classified as a Life long type of disorder. That means you need to see a specialist (clinical sexologist), that will help you.


If the sexual dysfunction develops only after a period of normal functioning (psychological or physical causes), then the male orgasmic disorder is and acquired type of disorder. This means that you need to see a therapist (clinical sexologist) for a solution to the momentary dilemma.

The context in which these sexual dysfunctions occur are:

In a Generalized type, where the sexual dysfunction is not limited to certain types of stimulation, situations, or partners. 
A man can have an erection and not ejaculate during sexual encounters; leaving ignorant women with the idea that he is not a premature ejaculator, that he has stamina, that he lasts. Yet few women really notice that not being able to ejaculate is actually frustrating for men. 

In a situational type, the sexual dysfunction is limited to certain types of stimulation, situations, or partners. Although in most instances the dysfunctions occur during sexual activity with a partner, in some cases it may be appropriate to identify dysfunctions that occur during masturbation.  

Etiological factors:

  Sexual dysfunction due to Psychological factors: When psychological factors are judged to have the major role in the onset, severity, exacerbation, or maintenance of the sexual dysfunction, and general medical conditions and substances play no role in the etiology of the sexual dysfunction.

The role of combined factors:

 We take combined factors in consideration when psychological factors are judged to have a role in the onset, severity, exacerbation, or maintenance of the sexual dysfunction; and a general medical condition or substance use is also judged to be contributory but is not sufficient to account for the sexual dysfunction. If a general medical condition or substance use (including medication side effects) is sufficient to account for the sexual dysfunction, sexual dysfunction due to a general medical condition and/or substance-induced, then sexual dysfunction is diagnosed.         
Questions for you:
How long have you lasted with an erection without ejaculating? Having sexual intercourse is exciting, therefore the normal physiological response is to ejaculate after thrusting for a normal amount of time.


Do you consider thrusting on a woman's vagina for 30 minutes or more to be normal intercourse? Reality is that women do want the thrill of the penetration to last a bit longer, yet being thrusted for more time than it should be is annoying. Women want to have sexual intercourse more than once and they also want to see men having an orgasm.

How to change?


DO not masturbate as often as you do!
Masturbation leads to sexual dysfunctions, for once you get accustomed to the technique, you won't be able to achieve an orgasm with a woman the same way as you do when masturbating.

You are not a sex robot!


No one expects you to be penetrating for more that the normal time permits you. That means, if you start the penetration and after the normal amount of time you feel like achieving your orgasm, just do it!


Foreplay...
If you know what you like, then have your partner do it: massages, oral stimulation, visual stimulation, role playing; all those activities have this in common: a relationship.

Having a relationship is important!
An interpersonal relationship is an association between two or more people that may range from fleeting to enduring.
 You do not need a formal romantic relationship, all you need is someone with whom you can do this things freely, without having pressures or feeling judged upon.


Relax...


Do not stress out about life too much, life is short, so fuck hard, and come fast, for tomorrow's cum might never cum.











Saturday, July 16, 2011

Lo que sea que se venga.


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Sobre Ti!

Cuando escogo, escogo bien
Sobre amistad:
Trato de escoger a mis amistades con sabiduría, ya que en el pasado he cometido errores en ese proceso de selección. Creo que todos tenemos el gran potencial de ser mejores amigos pero si no observamos nuestra mente no podremos nunca lograrlo. Que triste es el brindarle la completa confianza y amistad incondicional a alguien que no se lo merece, pero mas triste es ver que esa persona va de mal en peor y no quiera de tu ayuda; o peor aun, que la persona en quien confiaste crea que le vaya bien y en realidad su vida esta al reves.
Amigos Superficiales:
"Todo se trata de tener buenas conexiones o mejor dicho palas"- asi es que la gente piensa, pero por que no modificar nuestra forma de pensar y decir: "Todo se trata de tener buenas relaciones interpersonales con nuestros amigos y amigas; en lugar de tratar de usarlos hasta sacarles el jugo". Asi estos supuestos amigos piensan, en como joderte y en como traicionarte hasta conseguir lo que quieran, que al final es joderte hasta la muerte si el tiempo se los permite. Que hago? Me alejo todo lo que pueda de esta lacra de gente.
Amigos Hipocritas:
Estos son los que te dicen: que son tus amigas chéveres y que siempre te apoyan y que todo esta bien "nice", y tu sabes dentro de ti que tus supuestas amistades están hablando pestes de ti, o peor aun son amigos de las personas que dicen ser tus enemigos abiertamente. Esto para mi es inconcebible, si eres mi amiga (o), entonces por que carajo te asocias con mis enemigos(as)? Gente asi son la peor, por que son como parasitos de la sociedad que ni siquiera se respetan asi mismos y que son hipócritas hasta con su persona. Gente asi son las que hay que cortar de raíz y no dejarles entrar ni un minuto mas en tu vida.
Sobre el buen humor:
Yo siempre tengo un buen sentido del humor que hasta a veces es un poco inapropiado pero de verdad no creo en callármelo todo, la risa es el mejor remedio para las tristezas y reírse de uno mismo es el mejor antídoto para el mal humor. Una sonrisa dice mas que mil palabras y no importa lo lindo o feo que uno sea esa sonrisa es universal y siempre te abrirá puertas.
Sobre el sexo o sexologia:
No soy juez de lo que haces con tu vida sexual, es tu vida, siempre y cuando no le hagas daño a nadie y no quebrantes la ley, es tu vida. Yo siempre he hablado del sexo como es, y es un tema que me encanta hablarlo por que todavía hay mucha ignorancia sobre el acto sexual y pienso que es mi responsabilidad ayudar a las personas a educarse en todo lo relacionado al tema. Sin el acto sexual no estaríamos aquí, por que hable de sexo, pornografía, masturbación, threesomes, etc, no significa que me quiero acostar y tener relaciones sexuales contigo o que soy una pervertida enferma sexual. Simplemente tengo menos inhibiciones cuando se trata de discutir temas de esta índole.  
Bueno si quieres hablar, desahogarte o simplemente quejarte, me puedes llamar o escribir, cuidate mucho y haz de tu vida un paraiso en el cual estes feliz, por que nuestra meta es lograr la felicidad absoluta.
Exito siempre y un abrazo bien grande!


Blake


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A poison tree

A Poison Tree by William Blake
I was angry with my friend:
I told my wrath, my wrath did end.
I was angry with my foe;
I told it not, my wrath did grow.

And I water'd it in fears,
Night & morning with my tears;
And I sunned it with my smiles
And with soft deceitful wiles.

And it grew both day and night,
Till it bore an apple bright;
And my foe beheld it shine,
And he knew that it was mine,

And into my garden stole
When the night had veil'd the pole:
In the morning glad I see
My foe outstretch'd beneath the tree





Not a Complainer


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I'm not a complainer
i don't like to complain.
"Stop fooling yourself" 
You love to complain.

You say is opinion
say what you must say
saying is not doing
you do better than say.

 
 Quiero ser la musa de tu inspiracion,
usadme en tu creacion.
!Oh dios maldito, os maldigo!
vuestra amargura me la trago con decencia
un buche de trago amargo adorna mis labios
!delicia compasiva,
te deslizas por mis labios hambrientos
entras en mi boca sin reparos
saboreas mis labios dentados
sin rencores ni espantos.

Soy la diosa que odias,
soy la virgen que adoras,
soy la doncella  inocente,
soy la bruja que te hiere,
la vampira que deseas,
la demona que te maldice,
la do~na Barbara, la malinche.

Por ti cruzo mares y desiertos
desterrada del cielo 
vivo en el infierno de incesante sufrimiento.

Por ti me mataria a mi misma
obsesiva con tu malicia.


Si una vez me brindaste tu confianza,
mi corazon se enterro en ella;
enterraste toda tu vida en mi corazon.

Amoroso tormento 
en mi corazon sediento
amoroso tormento 
en mis labios dentados
amoroso tormento 
en mi boca rosada
amoroso tormento 
en mi corazon desvelado
posado en mi 
como un cuadrado.


!Unamonos,
saltemos el precipicio!
!Corramos,
sobrepasemos la barrera del sonido!
!Huyamos,
para nosotros no hay nada imposible;
lo dificil tarda en llegar! 


"QUE NUNCA OS FALTEN LAS PALABRAS, QUE LA PALABRA OS SALVARA".